Female Angle
It’s gentlemanly to say ‘Thank you’
Much as sex remains a two- way game that is savoured by the two parties involved, I see no big deal in men saying thank you to their women after an appreciable session. For one particular reason, sex, as far as relationship experts are concerned, is the most precious gift a woman can give to a man. So, showing some appreciation simply means that you don’t just consider sex a given.
For most women, it does not come easy or cheap except, it is one that is given with some indifference. When it is wilfully offered, the man will love every minute of it. Besides, the majority of the sex rounds that couples have are desired by men and women most of those times just participated not because they are interested but because they just want to please their partners. So, why shouldn’t they be appreciated? Most of the times, women are worn out by the stress from their jobs, house chores and a couple of one or two things in the affair but for the sake of peace, they just offer themselves as a sacrifice and the men, for the bliss of having their ways and unmindful of all of these, most of the time, keep grinding away for as much as the show last.Taking time to say thank you after a round is quite good. Apart from the fact that it gives the woman the feeling that she is not one of the pieces of your acquisitions in the house, she is encouraged to look forward to more rounds. So, why should it be a problem, I mean, what do you stand to lose? In addition, learning to say the right words before, during, and after Sex can turn her on, boost her confidence, and make her keep coming back for more. It is simply gentlemanly. Whatever the situation, women love to talk to you.
‘Wow’ Though short and simple, it is just one perfect way of saying thank you. “I could just lie here with you forever.” Yeah, it sounds like a lyric from a song, but you wouldn’t imagine the magic that such words can do at such times. Saying thank you in any of the way listed above to your woman is not just a compliment, it is a magic that works wonders on your level of intimacy. It opens her eyes to what you like and what she should do again. And you can keep praising her skills hours or even days after having sex. Who knows? It might even inspire another spur of the moment. I am sure you guys will now agree with me that all is geared towards your interest
Male Angle
Don’t trivialise it
When I first wondered about this question, I thought it was something actually ridiculous, but after having discussed it with my wife and a few friends, I must say that I agree with a lot of the things everyone said. Let me explain here. I definitely agree it can be a little sexy to say it, but it depends on the familiarity and the relationship you both have. But I also completely understand how many people can be made to feel like a used piece of crap, a prostitute, or it just being plain awkward if they get thanked every time they had sex with their partners.
I can see it from both sides. But it just depends on the situation. Men also have the same issues to think about. For us, it is also about being put on the center stage and our sexual performance is being verified, acknowledged and praised or abused. It’s like a prized bull or horse being praised while being used for breeding. A lot of men will even question why there should even be a need for them to say it when it was something mutually enriching that we just took part in. For a lot of husbands, it’s also about having paid the woman’s bride price. Most men just cannot fathom why they should say so to a woman that the society understands to be theirs and this has nothing to being chauvinistic.
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